Out with the old…

Somehow, I’m not sure I like that statement. Out with the old seems to imply that the old simply isn’t worth keeping. And since I’m getting older every day, it isn’t very smart for me to be so eager to usher out the outdated. In light of this, I decided that this year I wasn’t going to make any New Year’s resolutions. Instead, I’m going to give an accounting of the things that made the last twelve months meaningful and I’m going to strive toward making even more memories as I venture into this new year. Some of the things that made my list were:

  • Attending the Beth Moore Living Proof Conference this summer.
  • Taking my daughter to a Kari Jobe and KJ-52 concert.
  • Taking my mother to see Joel Osteen in Cincinnati.
  • Buying the entire Harry Potter movie collection and watching it as often as possible.
  • Seeing movies like African Cats, Judy Moody and the Not Bummer Summer, Kung Fu Panda II, and Diary of a Wimpy Kid II with my daughter.
  • Going to COSI to see the Dinosaur exhibit and movie and to the Boonshoft Museum so my daughter could see the big constellation display for the first time.
  • Taking my daughter to the circus for the first time and riding an elephant with her.
  • Finishing my fifth Rona Shively story, Now You See Me.
  • Leading my first Bible Study at church.
  • Having the opportunity to work with a wonderful children’s theater company in Yellow Springs in my very first job as an Executive Director for a non-profit.
  • Starting a degree program (finally) in Religion at Liberty University.

I had a great year in spite of ending up unemployed and I plan to have an even better year this year. But in order to ensure that I suffer no disappointments, I’m making absolutely no big plans. This is a new thing for me. Usually, I’m sitting there on New Year’s Eve with my tablet and my pen in hand, writing up a list of things I need to do. Somewhere around April, I misplace the tablet and from that point on it’s all downhill. Of course there are things I plan to do, but nothing along the lines of setting unrealistic expectations for myself and then feeling badly because I don’t hit the mark. I’ve adopted the Rona Shiveliest of attitudes this year and will now be removing this pressure from my life. At least, until I get so frazzled by not having a plan that I have to buckle down and write myself out a big “to do” list.

I hope everyone had a great New Year’s and that the next twelve months are full of peace and prosperity for you and yours. If you do find yourself making resolutions, resolve to read all of my Rona Shively books this year. You can get them all for just $50! Proceeds benefit Higher Ground Ministries for women’s empowerment.

Until next time….

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